PERSEVERANCE + DIALOGUE

Perseverance..
I just need to persevere through these..

I m being not considerate in some ways..but I m SO CONSIDERATE if wana compare me to other girls..If people call it inconsiderate..i would rather call myself Brainless and Capricious..
yes..I m so sorry for doing things without thinking the consequences..But i learned now..

I went and search articles about Ways to IMpRove Relationships
I feel like i did all the points but not one of them..

Be a good listener

And show a sincere interest in what's happening in the other person's life. Remember that we have one mouth but two ears - use this as a reminder of how much talking to engage in versus how much listening.

Put yourself in the other person's shoes

As a good listener momentarily step into the other person's world (without being sucked into their negative states). Being in the other person's world requires that you listen with openness. In other words, while you are listening you do that and only that - you listen. This may take a bit of practice since most people tend to partially listen, while internally preparing or rehearsing what they are going to say next. This is in line with the very important NLP Principle of respecting others' Model of the World.

Empathy rather than sympathy

Empathy means understanding and having a feel for their difficulty without trying to get involved unless asked. Sympathy, feeling sorry for them, is disrespectful and indicates that you believe that they, on their own, do not have the resources to handle their own difficulty.

Look for the other person's good points

There will be plenty of these and you have a choice in whether you pay more attention to their good points or their imperfections. The more you discover a person's good points and focus on these the more your respect for them increases.

Keep in touch

Even if you last were together a few hours earlier, at breakfast perhaps, how about a one-minute phone call to ask how their day is going or to tell them you are thinking of them?


I WASn't aware of that point until what happen yesterday...
I tried to search for that point before this...But i couldnt
BUT nOw..I Found THose good points in him..
And i will MAKE his bad point a good one..That's what partner for..Improve us to be a better man..

And for his parents..What i can do now is..Not to do things that will cause bad impressions..Tho i had already done it..IT's FINE...Time can prove everything..I will prove them wrong =)
None of us are perfect..We have good points but we do have bad points sometimes..ANd people usually see negatives over the positives..BUT..if people cant accept the way we are..-BeTHatWaY- there are still places that can fit us..But..first thing first...I Wana PRactice Things that i learn from my practice of law of Buddhism>> Dialogue